How To Buy A Sexy Lingerie Or Nightwear Gift (And Get It Right)

Expert style and sizing tips for choosing sexy underwear gifts, from luxe lingerie sets to sultry slips

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Consider personal style when buying a sexy lingerie gift

“A matching bra and knickers set can be a really special treat. The key is choosing a style that reflects your partner’s personal taste,” says Soozie Jenkinson, M&S’s head of lingerie design.

“Our lingerie brands bring together a curated mix for every mood, from Rosie Exclusively for M&S – think vintage-inspired elegance and delicate lace, including this standout bra and underwear set in redcurrant – to Autograph’s modern, statement designs." You’ll also find fresh new pieces from Boutique, Boux Avenue, Fantasie, Pour Moi and Panache for more sexy lingerie gift ideas.

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How to get the size right when buying underwear

Before you start shopping, you need to work out the right size to buy.

Bra sizes comprise of two measurements: the band size (a number, for example 38) and the cup size (a letter or double letter, for example DD). Take note of both. Bralettes and knickers are usually in clothing sizes (for example 14) but might be XS, S, M, L, XL etc.

If she has a fuller figure, look for uplifting plunge bras, underwired bras and full-cup bras. Retro-chic balcony bras, lace bralettes or a flirty demi-cup bra are ideal for small to medium-sized busts. Check out our expert guide to the most flattering bras for bigger busts and small busts.

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Set pulses racing with these lingerie gift ideas

The ultimate treat for a lingerie lover is to receive a matching bra and knickers set, and the wide choice within our brands makes it easy to pick and mix pieces to create a set they’ll love.

Autograph's Monaco suspenders set is a standout choice, bringing together a beautifully made bra, knickers and coordinating suspenders for a perfectly pulled-together look. For something especially striking, Boutique’s rich emerald green set offers a fresh, confident pop of colour.

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No rest for the wicked: sultry sleepwear ideas

From smooth satin slips to lace camis with matching knickers, you'll be spoilt for choice with our sexy nightwear range.

The Silk and Lace cami and matching French knickers by Rosie Exclusively for M&S is high on our wish list. Pair it with Boutique’s lace robe for an added layer of glamour that feels effortlessly indulgent.

Looking for something a little more versatile? “When it comes to sleepwear, PJs are having a moment – we simply can’t have enough pyjamas in our ‘at-home’ wardrobe. Pyjamas and loungewear are very much on trend right now,” says Soozie. “Our gorgeous Dream Satin PJs come with Cling Resist and Cool Comfort technology for all-night comfort."

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