How to Find the Perfect Mother of the Groom Outfit

Venue, dress code and season all matter – here’s how to choose a mother of the groom outfit that looks polished and feels effortless

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Jayne Cherrington-Cook

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Say yes to the dress

The best place to start is with the cornerstone of any mother-of-the-groom outfit: finding the perfect dress.

Some good choices for dresses for the mother of the groom include A-line and fit-and-flare silhouettes, which offer timeless elegance that flatter every figure. Midi dresses provide the perfect balance between formal and comfortable. Try on several styles to find the one that makes you feel most confident, after all, this is a special day for you too.

When it comes to colours, consider neutral shades like champagne, pink or soft metallics that complement the wedding palette. A quick chat with the mother of the bride is always a good idea so your outfits don't clash.

This Phase Eight wrap dress ticks all the boxes. It’s super flattering with its cinched-in waist while the pretty pleated sleeves provide just the right amount of coverage.

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Match the wedding vibe

Your mother-of-the-groom outfit should fit and flatter, while matching the wedding’s formality and setting. Think black tie for a ballroom setting or something more relaxed for a beach ceremony.

If you know the colour theme, then you can also reflect this in your choice of outfit. Don’t go full-on matchy-matchy, instead include elements of it in the pattern of your dress or accessories.

The seasons will also affect your outfit choices. Winter weddings are perfect for rich jewel tones and plush velvet, while summer celebrations suit lighter colours and florals. Remember to consider practical details too, such as breathable fabrics for warmer months and long sleeves or coordinating jackets when it’s cooler.

For a garden or spring-time wedding, you can’t go wrong with a statement print. Stand out from the wedding crowd in this floral dress by LK Bennett. It’s a striking choice that balances colour, coverage and elegance.

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Beyond the dress

While dresses are a traditional choice, more mums are choosing alternatives that feel contemporary and just as special.

A beautifully tailored jumpsuit in crepe or silk is an elegant option with a contemporary feel, while a jacket in a brighter shade or a suit in a bold pattern brings confidence and impact without feeling overdone.

To keep tailoring feeling modern, look for clean lines, fluid fabrics and thoughtful details rather than heavy structure. Statement jewellery, a simple clutch and heels will elevate the look, whether you choose a jumpsuit or tailored separates

Above all, comfort matters just as much as style. Choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and at ease, so you can focus on what really counts: celebrating your son’s special day.

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Add the perfect finishing touches

The right accessories can elevate a mother-of-the-groom outfit. Not every wedding calls for a hat, but a well-chosen fascinator or hair accessory can pull the look together beautifully.

A sleek clutch bag in a metallic finish or matching fabric provides both style and practicality. Make sure it's big enough to hold all your essentials – tissues for any happy tears, lipstick for touch-ups and your phone for those unofficial photos.

When it comes to jewellery, classic pearls or subtle diamanté pieces work well without overwhelming your overall look. If you choose a simpler dress however, go bold with a statement necklace or pair of earrings.

And finally, don't forget about shoes. They should complement your dress but also be comfortable enough to wear all day. Remember, there will be dancing, so a mid-heel is always a good choice.

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