Dressing to Impress: How to Find the Perfect Mother of the Groom Outfit

It's their big day, but what are you going to wear? We've got you covered with outfit ideas and styling tips for every type of wedding

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Jayne Cherrington-Cook

Woman wearing a pale pink Phase Eight wrap dress, fascinator and heels

Say yes to the dress

The best place to start is with the cornerstone of any mother of the groom outfit: finding the perfect dress.

Some good choices for dresses for the mother of the groom include A-line and fit-and-flare silhouettes — both offer timeless elegance that flatter every figure. Midi dresses provide the perfect balance between formal and comfortable. Try on several styles to find the one that makes you feel most confident — after all, this is a special day for you too.

When it comes to colours, consider neutral shades like champagne, pink or soft metallics that complement the wedding palette. A quick chat with the mother of the bride is always a good idea so your outfits don't clash.

A wrap dress, like this one by Phase Eight, ticks all the boxes. It’s super flattering, cinching in the waist, while the pretty angel sleeves add a touch of romance and provide just the right amount of coverage. The shade is also perfect for complementing a range of wedding palettes.

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Match the wedding vibe

Your perfect mother of the groom outfit should not only fit and flatter you, but also be appropriate for the wedding's formality and location. A grand ballroom affair will probably call for black tie dressing, whereas a beach ceremony will require something a little more relaxed.

If you know the colour theme, then you can also reflect this in your choice of outfit. Don’t go full-on matchy-matchy — instead reflect elements of it in the pattern of your dress or accessories.

The seasons will also affect your outfit choices. Winter weddings are perfect for rich jewel tones and sumptuous velvet, whereas summer weddings cry out for florals. Remember to consider practical elements too — lighter fabrics for summer and long sleeves or matching jackets for cooler months.

For a garden or spring-time wedding, this floral maxi dress by Monsoon is just perfect. The navy base is accented with a striking cream and green floral print, while the chiffon ruffles and flowing maxi length add a touch of romance. We think its an effortlessly chic choice for any mother of the groom.

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Beyond the dress

While dresses are a traditional choice for most, many stylish mums are embracing stylish alternatives that feel just as special.

A beautifully tailored jumpsuit in crepe or silk offers an elegant look with a contemporary edge, while a trouser suit in a bright colour makes a bold, yet chic, statement.

To make a suit feel even more on point, swap the blazer for a waistcoat. This pale yellow longline waistcoat is the perfect choice for a more urban wedding setting. Add bold jewellery, a simple clutch and heels for the ultimate modern mother of the groom outfit.

Remember, comfort is just as important as style. Choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and allows you to focus on what really matters: celebrating your son's special day.

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Add the perfect finishing touches

The right accessories can transform a wedding outfit for the mother of the groom into something truly special. While not every wedding calls for a hat, a carefully chosen fascinator or hair accessory, such as a pastel headband, adds a sophisticated finishing touch. Opt for accessories that complement rather than compete with your outfit.

A sleek clutch bag in a metallic finish or matching fabric provides both style and practicality. Make sure it's big enough to hold all your essentials — tissues for those happy tears, lipstick for touch-ups and your phone for those unofficial photos.

When it comes to jewellery, classic pearls or subtle diamante pieces work well without overwhelming your overall look. If you choose a simpler dress however, go bold with a statement necklace or pair of earrings.

And finally, don't forget about shoes. They should complement your dress but also be comfortable enough to wear all day — remember, there will be dancing, so a mid-heel is always a good choice.

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