Black Tie Dress Code Decoded: What To Wear To A Black-tie Event

A glossy invitation has landed on your doormat – and the dress code says black tie. But what should you wear to a black-tie event and, just as importantly, what should you not wear? Put simply, black tie is a rare chance to get dressed up to the nines. It’s a formal way of dressing for special events – whether that's a black-tie wedding, milestone birthday party, dinner or award ceremony. Men don tuxedos or dinner jackets with traditional satin peaked lapels and a bow tie. Women tend to wear long dresses, usually below the knee or floor length, in an evening-appropriate fabric: think velvet, silk, satin or lace. Despite the name, a black-tie dress doesn’t necessarily have to be black.

When it comes to what not to wear to a black-tie event, avoid lounge suits (the kind that might be worn to the office). Anything casual, like trainers, polo shirts, or shorts, are also an immediate no-go.

We've got good news: black-tie dress codes are more flexible for women, so have fun and experiment with something new, although we’d recommend nothing shorter than knee length. If you want to keep things classic, a floor-skimming dress will always feel suitably elegant for a black-tie event.

We love brands such as Ghost London and Monsoon for polished and sophisticated black-tie maxi dresses. From bold florals to striking prints and pastels, black-tie dressing welcomes all colours and patterns. To avoid any faux pas, skip cream, white and ivory for black-tie weddings and check the bridesmaid dress colours beforehand.

If your chosen dress needs a modern edge, try statement jewellery. Think chunky silver or bold, oversized pieces in bright colours that clash with your dress. And if dresses aren’t your thing, why not try wearing a tailored suit or jumpsuit instead?

Think black tie, and you probably imagine a man wearing a tuxedo. Some pieces are simply non-negotiable when it comes to men’s black-tie dressing, including a jacket with satin lapels, a smart dress shirt and a bow tie. We offer a range of fits in our tuxedos, including skinny, slim and regular, so you’re sure to find a shape that suits you.

If the event is very formal, you’re best off sticking to the tried-and-true colour combination and fit of a black tuxedo and bow tie, worn with a white dress shirt. However, if there’s a chance to be a bit more playful, you can experiment with different shapes. A double-breasted suit obeys all the rules of black-tie dressing but feels fresh and modern.

Accessories can add a touch of personality to your black-tie look, like this polka-dot pocket square. Shoes should always be smart: you can’t go wrong with Oxford shoes.

There’s nothing cuter than when the kids put on their smartest outfits (although inevitably, they will spill something down it within five minutes). If your black-tie invite extends to the whole family, you can stick to the same rules as for the grown-ups: dresses and smart suits.

We love JoJo Maman Bébé for girl's occasionwear: this sunshine-yellow dress is the perfect choice for littlest one, while we're wishing this tulle dress came in adult sizes. Our suit jackets are a great choice for the boys – this blue jacket is a sophisticated and stylish option for a black-tie event.

You might need to slip some activities or toys into your evening bag to keep them occupied: discover our range of toys here.